finally the day has come

Posted under Angry/Sad, myself by Min on Friday 29 June 2007 at 2:09 am

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( see the extra blue and grey Reebok bag ? that’s for mum and sister to bring home if they buy extra stuffs!! Supre pink bag is sister’s belongings and mum’s Supre bag is underneath sis’. Honestly, they only bring 3 tops, 1 bottom and 1 pyjamas each that’s why can fit into the Supre bag, and the rest of the stuffs are MINE!!! ) 

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Do u think red and pink bag stands out ? haha .. i still love my pink luggage!! red is nice too !! black is ugly !! i’ll be sweet lady in pink tomorrow!!! haha…. dragging a pink luggage while wearing pink top!! i could have worn my pink heels but ..no … i cannot bring so many pairs of highheels to Singapore!! i won’t be driving there!! i’ll be WALKING!!! or catching public transport! 

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Red bag is FULL! Pink bag as u can see is almost full, i still need to chuck in some cosmetics , last minutes high heels and etc etc! black laptop bag is still empty as I’m using it right now!

Physically I’m ready to leave! but mentally I’m not!! trust me, I’m going to miss home!! I’ll definitely cry tomorrow !! yes it is just for a week! exactly a week but … i can’t seem to smile !!

i manage to talk to my huns ! finally i told him that I’m going over tomorrow! As usual he asked everything! where will i stay for the time being, who is going , how am i going , what will i do tomorrow , how am i going to do it , what bank account to open , this and that!! 

also told him that mummy wants me to come home this Friday so i cannot celebrate his birthday with him ! but he is alright! he claims that he doesn’t like to celebrate! this one i know because last year he was pretty unhappy , not exactly happy la! he did mention, he celebrated because of me !! hahah…. :) this year we’ll have a belated joint birthday celebration! in conjunction to our one year anniversary also !!

I did a lil’ card for the boyfriend this evening! the card states down all the important  dates, events , our first date, first dinner, first anniversary, first time admitted to hospital, first time in the ambulance, first trip , etc etc !! i think he will be impressed ! because I’m sure he can’t remember those dates!! 

for this year, i think I’ll do the same! I’ll record down every single thing that happened to US !!  and there are also some stuffs which belong to the boyfriend in the red luggage- Perfume,Nike top,Ralph Lauren Polo-T, Patchi Chocolate, Tie , 2 cards - those are stuffs that I’ve gotten for him! i can’t remember for what event anymore, but I’ll give them all to him at one go!!! feels like I’m a Santa giving out pressie to that lil’ boy !! :)  

As for my stuffs, i didn’t bring much! but i do no know why is my bag so full!! i admit , i bring quite a bit of clothings, but i think maybe 13 pieces top, 5 bottoms , one bolster,22 perfume, 1 heels , 1 shoes, 1 thongs,1 box of make up stuff, 1 bag of hair accessories,  2 bags ( i intend to buy on Saturday!), no teddy bears, no photo frames, the most troublesome item will be my Xray because i can’t fold it!! Argh !! 

oh as for hotel , I’ll be staying in Marina Mandarin Hotel, boyfriend said it is a 5 stars hotel , but I’m not too sure ! but hopefully it’ll be a nice one!!  other than the changes to the hotel, i guess the schedule will still be more a less the same! 

Don’t worry bout the broadband thingy, boyfriend found this broadband provider,m1, just sign up the plan and i ‘ll be able to access it anywhere in Singapore, cool huh?! hehe … only for S$28 onwards!

I’ll miss Malaysia!!  

 

hospital !

Posted under Family by Min on Thursday 28 June 2007 at 4:09 pm

i spent my whole morning in Megah Medical Specialist Group today !!

not that I’m sick but i gotta do my medical check up and blood test.. results are….

1. open the big big envelope first…

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2.then u’ll see a big black foil… the Xray

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3. also comes with a black and white explanation to the X-ray.. my heart is in normal size and no focal lung lesion!! TB free!! :)

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4. wait wait wait then went for blood test!! for HIV!! pray hard for negative results! eheh… of course it is negative la!! I’m clean !! i didn’t do anything!! i didn’t naughty naughty , i didn’t have blood contact with strangers!! :) chance of having positive is near to zero unless I’m HIV carrier, born with it maybe ?? haha ..results?? of course HIV is not detected!!

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5.Finally , this is the only thing i want!! after about 3 hours plus… tada… official medical report !!

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6. and the bill comes to rm125++ reasonable price? i don’t know .. can’t be bothered! as long as my report is alright and i can get it on time, that’s good enough!!

normally HIV test takes at least 1.5 days ! but i beg the nurse and doctor ! ahaha.. so they rush rush the lab people! thanks !! hahaha lucky to meet nice people to help me with express report!! woohoo.. but still i waited for quite awhile!

also i overheard a bunch of nurses chatting that some old man passed away.. sorry uncle….

Bad news!! hotel rooms are fully booked!!!! well, i mean i know i will have a room definitely , just the matter of the price!! now , I’m waiting for reply from Holiday Inn ! let’s see if i can get a room there!! both Grand Central Hotel and Robertson Quay are fully booked!! argh !!!! well, i think they just want $$ !! that’s it !!

oh .. yesterday i was bored, so i un-tie my nieces’ present! haha also took some photos !..have a look :

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this little piece of pink jumper thingy is rm79 ! but … doesn’t matter la!! as long as she can grow up healthily .. that’s alright! :)

I’m still sad that i gotta leave, at a point of time, i was hoping that my medical report will fail! then i don’t need to go !!! :( silly me ?

final countdown

Posted under Angry/Sad by Min on Thursday 28 June 2007 at 8:49 am

yes… tomorrow this time, I’ll be on my way to that annoying country !! that i will be therefor my next 1.5 years!! i will be missing HOME terribly , my BED, my ROOM, my FAMILY, my MAID, my FRIENDS, my CAR, my UNLIMITED SHOPPING SPREE, my FREEDOM to travel around, my FREE TIME, my EVERYTHING!!!!!!of course I’ll MISS BLOGGING too!! I’ll try to get Internet connection from my room but if i can’t then i just gotta do it in uni or McDs haha !!

But, so far, i found a wireless connection deal only for S$2.55 a day! i guess i will sign up for that but …. i do not know the exact terms and condition apply .. so , I’ll check that out!

Schedule for my Singapore Trip:

Friday,29th of June 

6.00am - Leave home

9.30 am- Arrive JB , mum can enjoy her Soon Wong Bak Kut Teh

11.00am- Arrive Robertson Quay hotel in front of Singapore River!! I’m expecting a nice view alright??, check-in ,Head to University

11.45am- arrive at uni, pay everything , open bank account at that area so that it’ll be more convenient for me in future! 

1.30 pm- Go to ICA building to collect student pass  

10 Kallang Road
ICA Building
Singapore 208718
(Next to Lavender MRT station)
Tel: 6391 6100
Fax: 6298 0843 / 6298 0837
Website: http://www.ica.gov.sg
Email: ica_feedback@ica.gov.sg
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Later on, settle hand phone service provider,  Internet Connection, i guess that’s it !!!!

7.00 pm- Night Safari and dinner at Ulu Ulu Safari Restaurant !

Saturday , 30th of June 2006

depends on what time we wake up, if early, might head to my new home , just to walk around the surroundings to get familiar with the place!!

then will spend whole day at Orchard Road ! will bring mummy to Din Tai Fung at Paragon for her Xiao Long Bao !!  

Dinner will bring her to Marina Square for Jap Cuisine!

Japanese Cuisine @ Keyaki

The Pan Pacific, Level 4, Marina Square

7 Raffles Boulevard

Phone: 64348335

  or Charcoal Yakinuku

Gyu-Kaku – Charcoal Yakiniku Dining

30 Victoria Street, #01-01/02/03 Chijmes

Phone: 6333 4001

Sunday- head to my new home! settle down !! and send mummy and sister home! then I’ll be all alone crying in the room :( how sad !! 

Monday- uni , uni , uni

Friday -GO HOME!!! hooray !! 

Conversation that made me mad!

Posted under Angry/Sad by Min on Thursday 28 June 2007 at 12:24 am

our lil’ conversation before he went to bed !

Me : Wong Xxx Xxx ( his full name)

Him: Wong  Yyy Yyy ( my full name)

Me: who give u permission to call me  Wong Yyy Yyy ??bleah

Him : who say u can call Wong Xxx Xxx then??

Me : because WXX is WYY’s darling bf!

Him: oh , then who is WYY to WXX then ?          

Me:dunno, to WYY,WXX is her darling, but to WXX, dunno who is WYY to him lo…

Him: that is for WXX to know only , WYY don’t need to know! 

Me: why so secretive? Tell la!

Him: NO!

see? tell me la!! angry arnot ???  

dates

Posted under bla bla bla by Min on Wednesday 27 June 2007 at 4:46 am

2.28 am , i can’t sleep! i am thinking about loads of stuff again :( ……stuffs like :

  • the boyfriend
  • if i can get along with my landlady and her family
  • my studies -if i can cope
  • myself missing home!

i  have this thought in my mind, i will tell the bf that i will only see him on the 5th of July !! why 5th of july ? because 5 th of July 2006 was the first day we pak tor because after we got together on the 24th of June, we only manage to see each other on th 5th when he visited me in Malaysia!!

So this time round, i want to make this day a more memorable day , so i thought maybe i should not see him till the 5th ! then on the 5 th maybe we can enjoy this day ???? what do u think ??

but i will return home on the 6th ! then go back to Singapore on the 8th again !!

Am i being selfish ? i’m coming home to celebrate my birthday ! or do u think i should stay there to celebrate his birthday ?the fact is that i celebrated his birthday with him in Singapore last year, so i thought maybe this year i should come back and celebrate my own birthday with my family !

24th June 2006 - we got together!

5th July 2006- he came to Msia to visit me

6th July 2006- he brought me back to his home, Singapore 

 7th July 2006- His birthday and celebrated it

8th July 2006- i left Singapore, back to Malaysia

9th of July 2006- my birthday celebration

10th July 2006 - my birthday

15th July 2006- he went back to Australia to wait for my return

23rd July 2006- i  went back to Aussieland!

25th July 2006- we celebrated our belated one month anniversary !!

as for 2007 , i don’t know how it will be !! haha… i guess it will be something like this

5th July 2007- pak thor one year anniversary !

6th of July2007- i leave Singapore to return to Malaysia

7th July 2007- he celebrates his birthday, i will be celebrating my own birthday too

8th of July- i return to Singapore

10th of July - i celebrate my own birthday in Singapore 

 

rojak post with photos

Posted under Shopping, Food, myself by Min on Tuesday 26 June 2007 at 11:20 pm

took a photo of my hair .. this is the colour at the moment, but all i can say is that the highlights are not very obvious!! argh !!!! but it was my choice! hehe i told hair dresser not to give me a very very bright colour. i gotta admit.. this photo is rather scary looking but this is my hair!! nhahahah, was taken in the car and it was ultra bright therefore my face invisible! but if u were to see carefully, u can see my face a lil! hheh( i didn’t photoshop the picture to remove my face, this is an ori picture without any editing work !!)

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haha silly me missed the  turning into KLCC’s parking lot and ended at at AMPANG !! so sister suggested to have our brunch there!! what-else Ampang is famous for ? Ampang Yong Tau Fu la!! but my favorite shop(Hung Hung) was close!!!!!! so we visited another shop( Hung Hung’s neighbour)!! well, the food is alright but it is nothing compare to my favorite shop

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That’s what sister and i had total of 7 pieces( 1 piece of white tofu swimming in the soup , a piece of You Tiao, 3 pieces of Chinese Gyoza(Sui Kao), 2 pieces of Eggplant)! hehe.. sister had 4 pieces and i had 3 !! but i didn’t manage to finish them, i only ate 2.5 pieces!! simply because I saw a rat while i was munching my food!! and i wasn’t in my mood to eat!!

i know the photo doesn’t look appealing to u guys cos i took using my Hp and i ordered too little , so i cannot capture nice photos!!it will definitely look good if i order ladies finger, chillies, fish balls, fu chok, etc etc, then the photo will look more colorful and yummy !! trust me, the food is not that bad la!! it is definitely better than some yong tau fu stall around PJ !! haha … but the cleanliness… haha…. it looks pretty clean but i do not know why there was still a rat running there! maybe i was just unlucky to see that lil’ rat!!!!

other than the ties, i also bought some other stuffs ! heheh ..two pieces of tube top for myself! :) and that boyfriend’s focus dailies contact lens!! argh!! i still have to go back to the shop tomorrow to collect the remaining box!!

Also bought a nice lady like clothing for my niece- Zhi Xuan, but the sales lady wrapped up nicely already so , i do not want to destroy the packaging! hehe.. bought it from Bangsar Shopping Centre at this baby shop which imports the clothings all the way from France!! baby stuffs are not cheap!!! it cost me rm79 for that bit bit of cloth!!! :)

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Guessing game!!

Posted under bla bla bla by Min on Tuesday 26 June 2007 at 10:48 pm

guess what did i buy in the end for the bf for our one year anniversary ???

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A tie!! :)
there are two ties below, guess which one is the one i bought for the boyfriend ?

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saw a few nice boxers shorts also but didn’t buy them ! they are pretty cheap only rm40 each !!

Present!

Posted under Shopping by Min on Tuesday 26 June 2007 at 8:47 am

I really do not know what to buy for him! he asked for a home cooked meal-Lasagna, but i was thinking i still need to get him something at least as remembrance ! haha or just for laugh la since he bought me that plague with “I SHOP THEREFORE I DO NOT COOK!”

My friend suggested me to get him a boxer shorts with cartoon characters ! but.. where to get those? i used to see many of those in Australia! but Malaysia, i think finding boxers are hard enough! most Malaysian wear brief right? i do not know! there’s only 2 males in my family !! my dad and my dog!!! my dad wears brief! size L ! hahaha.. my dog wears nothing!!

Actually once i got together with the boyfriend, i wasn’t use to it seeing him walking around the room/house in his boxer! but now I’m used to it la…. This is how his usual boxer looks like !! abit ah pek right? but i prefer guys in boxers than brief!!! what do u think ??

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Haha, then i saw this pinkish purple-ish boxer! i think the colour is quite nice!! hehehe.. very girlie! just like me!! woohoo.. i doubt he will wear it if i were to buy this! but …. not cheap okie ?? 20pounds for Ralph Lauren’s !! and 25 pounds for Boss’ boxer pants!!Don’t u think they are too costly for a man’s boxer? haha not like it is a piece of bra that needs wiring, padding, nice sewing, perfect curve , boxer is just a lousy piece of cloth sew into a shorts with a whole at the censored part! at most they add a lil’ button on ! hehe.so easy !!

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Well, i don’t think I’ll buy him a Boxer pants la! unless i see some nice ones!! Calvin Klien’s Boxer is too common !! and not much of design !! but , i can always have a look! no harm!!

So, today I’ll continue my shopping again!! :) also , need to buy some lasagna ingredients to practice it !!Mind u , I’ve never cooked LASAGNA before in my life!! i can cook Traditional Spaghetti Bolognese with the ready made sauce!! hahahaa…

I got the recipe from this lady. interested in preparing lasagna for your loved ones? i got the step-by-step recipe for beginners/dummies!!! haha..contact me if u want the recipe okie ???

blur shopping day for a careless girl!

Posted under Shopping by Min on Monday 25 June 2007 at 9:14 pm

i do not know what’s wrong with me today , i can’t seem to concentrate in whatever I’m doing!even when i drive,I’ll be dreaming away !!

Early in the morning, i gotta send sister’s laptop to KPMG at Jalan Dungun because she left her laptop behind!! argh!! i got no choice but to send there…. i saw a lil’ accident on my way there involving one motorbike and a Proton Wira, the bike was broken but the driver was alright, thank god, i saw the car driver helping the motorcyclist to the side of the road….

then from Jalan Dungun, i was heading to MidValley, but i missed the turning! so i thought i could make a U-Turn at the junction to Hartamas, but i missed that U-turn too!!! i was led all the way to the u-turn at KLGCC !!! finally i headed to Midvalley and arrived about half and hour later!! well, normally it takes only 10-15 minutes!!!

I was shopping alone… heheh.. bought 2 tops from MNG ( opps, did i mention i just bought 2 tops from MNG the day before at Times Square??) hahahha… also bought a shorts from Voir ! total spent was rm200 again!!! sigh …. walk walk, was approach by this lady , who asked me to join Estee Lauder Model Search…. she said ” u r so pretty, u can walk away with the prize( but i wasn’t listening) , complete make over and dresses, everything included…..” u think I’ll join ? no la.. I’m not into all this make over stuff…. apparently they’ll choose the model they like after the photo session… come on, so many ppl take part, what makes me think that i stand a chance???? 

then came home, did a bit of packing!!! guess what ?? my beg is full already without placing in all my clothes!! oh no!! how am i going to fit in my whole closet?????? I’ll be in trouble this time, yet i need to bring my heels , sandals, shoes!!!! make up stuff!! aiyor…. die !!! i packed my stuff into the vacuum bag, i vacuumed it , not a while the bag became airy again! i tried twice , in the end , i realized that the bag is broken !!Argh !!! wasted my effort!! 

Did i also mention that i spent rm7145 today ?????????????for what u must be thinking …. for sister’s school fees lar.. just half a year and it costs us rm7k , that’s why i always tell mum to transfer her back to Government school but ….  sigh… daddy wants to JAGA MUKA!! scared Gov school not safe …. so Private school is their choice!! 

must praise HSBC abit !! haha, before i leave the admin office of Sri KDU , they already call me up to verify my spending!! haha, i guess there are just too many cases where people mis-use credit cards!! well, Citibank is as efficient too!! so far, i think OCBC and Maybank are not as efficient compare to other banks in terms of tracking the usage of the credit card !! hehe …

ok, the careless part, i went to this optician to order contact lens for that boyfriend…. that not handsome but wants to be handsome boyfriend ultra troublesome!! he wears Focus Dailies!! i told him to swap to Monthly contact lenses but he doesn’t want!  i told him that Dailies are costly but he doesn’t care!! Dailies is rm85 per box( 1 month supply)!! well well back to careless story!! can u believe it ?!?!? i walked away without my credit card after paying the deposit!!! and i didn’t know until they called me up!!!!

thank god, they are being honest, and called to return the card!!! if some bad fella took it and mis-use it !! then i pity HSBC , not me!! hahaha …..

I booked a hotel room for mum,sis and myself this weekend but it is fully booked!! i booked another one at Chinatown and it is still pending! i really hope to get a room, why is Singapore’s hotel so high in demand???? and they are so so so expensive!! :)

of course they have those motel or rest house, yucks, i wonder how clean are they !! and I’m scared that it might not be safe!! ( but Singapore is a safe country right ?? haha no , boyfriend said that it is considerably safe but also there are some dangerous places!! ) 

but .. Maybank Platinum card holders please take note, with this card, u can stay at any Hilton Hotel for free!!!! buy 3 nights free 1 night and buy 5 nights free 3 nights!!! :)

 

 


 

What kind of Girlfriend am i ?

Posted under myself by Min on Monday 25 June 2007 at 10:10 am
You Are A Professional Girlfriend!

You are the perfect girlfriend - big surprise!
Heaven knows you’ve had enough practice. That’s why you’re a total pro.
If there was an Emily Post of girlfriends, it would be you.
You know how to act in every situation … to make both you and your guy happy.
What Kind of Girlfriend Are You?

my love life

Posted under myself by Min on Monday 25 June 2007 at 5:11 am

Primary :

The very first time to have a guy confess to me was when in primary 4 or 5 i can’t remember !! hahah.. i know i was ultra angry because girls used to hate boys back in primary ! hahah .. i remembered that i scolded him !! saying that ” u go far far away from me! i don’t like u AT ALL”

Secondary :

Secondary 1, this annoying rich guy ( not from my school) forever calling my house , wanting to chat with me, during tuition , always wanting to talk to me , he address me a YAT PUN MUI ( Japanese Girl) but i hated him so badly simply because he thinks he is rich !! yucks..then he was from a lousier secondary school than I am !!!

Sec 3, this guy-Alex* liked me too! but i rejected him because his face was too pimply ( lots of pimples!) and his results were bad!plus he was from a singled parent family! and i just don’t like him! after that he dated with my good friend! and he forced her to have sex with him! thank god, i was not the unlucky person who dated him, or else i would have lost my virginity long time ago!!

then i met ex-bf lo… got together …

Ex-bf’s good friend fell for me too!! but bf didn’t know!! haha plus i was mean , forever telling him that he doesn’t stand a chance!!!so in the end , i guess he quietly forget me lo…

College and uni time …. 

During ex-bf’s time, i had a couple of  admirers but all stupid ones… not that they are dumb mentally but … i wasn’t interested in them at all !!! i am a loyal person okie? when i’m dating some1 , i’ll never go out ona  date with a nother guy !!!

had this Australian ang mo guy - yucks, ham sup!!!, this Australian Malaysian Chinese who went crazy and cried in front of me , this Malaysian Chinese whom went insane and walk around hostel naked finally got kicked out of hostel ! still got which one?! i can’t remember la..waste my effort to remember!!

oh there was this crazy Ipoh guy, he asked me for my horoscope!! he said must check if we are suitable before we date!!! crazy , i don’t like him at all!! he is scary !!

before current boyfriend,2 of my close friends told me that they like me…. yet both of them are best pals!!! but i didn’t choose any of them because the first guy’s English is not that great! i like smart guys and guys with great communicating skills!!! the second guy , he is not a man!! he doesn’t have his stand! he doesn’t like to make decisions!! i hate this kind of “guy” !! i think they are behaving more like a lady than a man !!but he told me that he would let go of his current gf for me!! crazy !!! did i say i like him ???

also .. another guy ! haiyo… so ma fan ! he is also a close friend of mine!! but before he confess , i hinted him la that we’re not meant to be , i don’t like him etc etc….

when boyfriend was going after me, there was another Singaporean guy who was after me also … Clement* - i knew him much longer than current bf! and we stayed in the same hostel, Clement would call me to cheer me up, he is rich !! he is smart , he did Double degree in Economics and Commerce, now he is working in one of the big 4 accounting firms in Singapore! he is also very cute!! hhee.. he knows that i like hello kitty ( that time McDonald’s were having this Hello Kitty) then he purposely went to eat Happy Meal and he is a very big, build up man , imagine a big guy eating happy meal!! hhaha worst still , the lady who served him gave him a guy’s toy ( cos he is a guy ma!!) but he told her :” sorry, can i have the hello kitty instead?” hahaha so cute rite???? plus he did this TWICE!!! ad every week he will purposely walk over to McDonald’s to check if the new toy has arrived!! hehe … now the hello kitty toy is sitting on my table! so cute!! i know he wanted to tell me his feelings even before i went home because he has been asking me out and stuff… but he wanted it to be more memorable i guess, he confessed on my birthday !! but .. i felt bad ,but i didn’t want to lie to him so i told him ” I’m sorry but i got a bf already !”

That time, boyfriend was so mean , forever laughing at me and another friend who were both crazy over the Hello Kitty toy from McDonald’s !!  he laughed at out childishness!! haha, now he got a childish girlfriend lo!! wahaha

i really don’t know what he likes about me!! I’m not pretty , not smart, not rich , not good… everything not good! plus my friends always tell me , those guys that dare to confess their love/feelings to me are stupid because i will most likely reject!! but.. i don’t know why i accepted him …

over this year , i should say i haven’t been a good partner! i never try to go out with his friends( I’m not as social-able as i sound like, I’m a hermit whom likes to lock herself in her room!) , i never get to be close to his family ! i was watching a show just then , the host asked the man to write out their mum-in-law’s name, but most of them cannot answer correctly !so i was thinking, do i know BF’s parent’s name? er… his dad is Jeffrey? mum is er..Evelyn !! Brother is Joshua , maid i don’t know! popo is popo la !

trust me , I’m going to ask him this question soon to check if he knows my parents’ names! i guess he knows my sisters’ names!! back to the show , one of the guy who failed to answer the mum-in-law’s name, he said because he doesn’t need to address her name , he just need to know her daughter’s name ! that’s enough!! i think that’s very true! it is important for him to know my name!! that’s enough!! I’m sure he knows my full name, we share same surname yet he addresses me as either dear or my full name! so how can he not know ???

over the year , the most serious thing that happened was sometime in September,over the sleeping thingy and also last week when i felt so miserable! also, often i feel insecure and lonely because he loves community life, he prefers group dating , i prefer just me and him …. i need lots of attention ,love and care, he doesn’t like to give me ! hehehe … so that’s where arguments arise !!

many times, i broke my promises, promised to do this and that but always fail !! i hope that in this coming year, everything will be alright, I’ll be a good girlfriend, he’ll be a nice boyfriend..

Of course after i got together with bf , i still got a few guys who told me their feelings , but i find them annoying!! there’s this silly HongKong guy! haha his way of getting close to me is to ask me for tutorial and lecture’s stuff !! also provide me with all the TVB series!! haha… to a point, bf would chat with him on my behalf just to download shows from him! but he is also another nice guy hopefully he can find his true love in Hong Kong soon !!

i guess that’s it la… maybe some just not worth my effort to even list them down ! compare to many other girls, i think my admirers are very lil’ but … as if i care !! all i care is that i love my boyfriend and he loves me!! i rather have one loving bf than 10 playboy boyfriends!!

One year anniversary !

Posted under bla bla bla by Min on Sunday 24 June 2007 at 12:13 pm

yes today(24th June 2007) is the day where we got together officially!!

One year ago, i was at Sydney airport and he was at some restaurant in Singapore! before i step into the plane ( MH122, 2.50 pm/Sydney time) i agreed to be his girlfriend!

From that moment onwards, my life changed! haha of course from single to NOT AVAILABLE! other than that , not much of changes!!

This year round , it is the same again! I’m in Malaysia and he is in Singapore!! i guess our lives are just meant to be apart! hehe..

Time really flies , in the past one year , time spent together with him is just 5 months!! the 7 months we are separated !

i do not know how long will this relationship last but i shall enjoy the moment we spend together ! If we are meant to be , we’ll be , if we’re not meant to be , no point forcing it also ! :)

in this one year, of course we had lots and lots of ups and downs! but , we never raised over voice and argued!! at most we just talk things over ! or i refuse to pick up his call, that’s it ! hehe … yes I’m the bad one! but he often refuse to pick up my call too … fair and square lo!

I didn’t get him any present , not even a card! don’t ask me why! maybe I’m just not a romantic person who often want to be in a romantic situation/date! i love the dance floor with romantic love songs but i can’t sing!! i love the romantic and silent beach but i am scared of the sticky sea water and sandy sand ! I love to watch the stars at night , but I’m scared that i’ll be robbed !! ( Malaysia is dangerous okie ?)

Of course i am hoping that he remembers this day , but even if he forgets , I’ll pretend to forget too! I’ll not mention a word about it! :) i guess too many things happened the past 2 weeks, I’m not in my mood to celebrate it!! initially i was looking forward to this day but not anymore….

lastly , Happy 1st Anniversary to my dearest Bf and also to myself!! ( just in case he doesn’t wish me, at least i’ve wished myself!!)

p/s: I’m not surprise if he forgets because i once asked him if he remembers when did we get together, he told me 26th of June!!! he can’t remember!!

if he is reading this , i hope that he will call me at 12 am , to wish me! but … my dream will never come true!!

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This morning , when i came back from my morning jog, this is what i saw on the table!!!!

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Hahah… was all excited when i saw my name on the name card ! i quickly open it … and this is what i saw …

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the plague is written ” I SHOP THEREFORE I DO NOT COOK!! “ how evil is that boyfriend right?? but he is all sweet! in the lil’ card he wrote :

Hi Dear,

Happy 1st Year!

bet u thought i’ve forgotten about it huh? :P

I hope u’ll like the plague! it’s so you right? don’t u think? *haha*

Love 

but , I’m revenging! hhaha since he thought i thought that he had forgotten , then I’ll pretend as if i didn’t receive it! wahaha… wait till he ask me!!!!:) make him worry a little!!! I’m an evil girlfriend!! because i got an evil boyfriend!!

of course i love the lil’ present ! it is the heart that counts!!

What do u do when u are bored?

Posted under bla bla bla by Min on Saturday 23 June 2007 at 11:12 pm

What do u do when u r bored?

my answer is SPEND MONEY !!!

i was not in my mood to shop so i decided to pay the salon a visit!! i remember seeing a flyer at my windscreen just on Friday stating that COVO hair salon at Kota Damansara is having 30% off promotion !! So i called them up, the boss/owner/hair stylist, Ian talked to me told me the directions to his place ….

when i step in , the decorations of the shop is unique! Ian mentioned that he spent over rm100k in the shop!! he took a bout 3 months to prepare before he begins this business! :) He is a nice guy, 26 years old this year, he used to work in Sydney and Orchard ,Singapore! but, finally he decided to come back to Malaysia for good to start up his own business!! oh, still available for your information! haah

well, his hair styling skills is normal! i kind of like it better than Peekaboo, TTDI! first it is because of the price !!! Peekaboo is so costly!!!! it cost me rm300 to highlight!! but at Covo, i only pay rm160 ( before 30% off) . plus Ian gave me a very homely feeling, it is very relaxing to chat with him there! haiyo, i didn’t fall for him of course!

i highlighted my hair and trimmed a little!! he is so nice, he knew i am interested in perming my hair but didn’t dare, so he styled my hair into curls to let me see how will i look like!!! immediately i told him,  can i have my straight hair back ? hahah.. he didn’t scold me , he didn’t charge me, he happily said “sure!” hahaha… and i got my straight hair back !! thanks, Ian !!

He is so nice, he promised to give me a free hair treatment during my next visit! hehe…

his address is 31-1, Jalan PJU5/11 , Kota Damansara … i do have his number too but it is in my wallet, he also gave me some of the flyers for 30% off!!! so if u want them, let me know!! :)  

Price list : Hair cut,lady around rm65

                   Highlight, long hair around rm160

                   Rebonding, long hair around rm330

                   Hair styling - F.o.c for me ! normally he charges i suppose! 

trust me , his pricing are acceptable!! he didn’t mark up the price , plus he is friendly and nice! so , it is worth your afford to pay him a visit!!  

All about Cancer-ian

Posted under bla bla bla by Min on Saturday 23 June 2007 at 2:41 pm

how true is this? i think it is quite true in some situations but not always!!! hehe… check out my personal opinion in blue ! well, i guess this is just an coincident! how can everyone on earth be categorized into 12 different groups? unlikely right? haha i don’t really believe but i enjoy reading them to check if they are accurate!!

☆Chance of being dump/被甩機率60:巨蟹座沒有安全感讓人壓力大,他要安全感的方式就很多種,有的可能是奪命連環CALL,有的人可能是金錢方面,所以很多巨蟹座會讓另外一半,說沒有結婚打算的,或沒有那麼想定下來的,或覺得太黏很可怕的,就想甩掉她,所以巨蟹常常就 是為什麼我愛你這麼深,你反而要把我甩掉,這個被甩是來自於本身太沒有安全感了。 ( this is 100% true!!!i am a girl with no sense of security! also , boyfriend finds it difficult due to this characteristic of mine!)

☆ Characteristics of a Cancer-ian/愛情情報: 巨蟹座是最有家庭觀念的星座。一旦找到所愛的人,就會真心真意對待對方,待人溫柔體貼;但由於感情細膩,容易為情所傷,很在意對方是否一樣真心對待他 ( 她 ) 。巨蟹座男其實對你儂我儂的甜蜜戀情是很向往的,但是又很小心翼翼,雖然心裡很想聽到情人對自己的甘言蜜語,但是自己不去表達所以常常也得不到期望的回 應。但是天秤女人生來就很會討人舒心,她們與人交往時很會從對方角度去思考,總是會用很巧妙的模式瓦解巨蟹心裡的小疙瘩,給予他們想要的回應,巨蟹男便會 迅速燃起不為人知的激情。 巨蟹座男人很敏感,在外打拼時很容易因為一些小事而思前想後,產生不必要的擔心。那麼家裡就很需要一個金牛座這樣的女生來幫助穩定巨蟹的情緒。金牛女 思考問題很穩重並且有條理,她們會幫助巨蟹過濾掉不必要的困惑,抓到問題重點,一步一步把問題分析解決。巨蟹男因此感到十分踏實。並且金牛是巨蟹守護星- -月亮的擢升星座,他們都同樣重視家居生活,金牛座又很會做一手好吃的拿手菜,另巨蟹男窩心不已,因此願意將金牛女娶回家。 (  i don’t know if he likes me to sweet talk but I’m pretty sure he is shy to show his love !!! he is even shy to express himself !!yes he always choose a safe path to go , he likes his gf to be able to cook and take care of the family while he works )

☆ Love life of a Cancerian/巨蟹座   劇名:苦命哀怨大長今:一旦喜歡上一個人,你的勞碌性格就會大大地顯現出來!你最基本的噓寒問暖到想照顧他的三餐和生活,一有機會你就會無條件地對他好,但是這些老媽 子的關心對他來說可能有點無法承受,讓他覺得充滿壓力和負擔,如果你一直在沒有「名分」的狀況下付出,可能會讓他覺得越來越不自在,甚至常常躲著你,讓你 們之間越來越疏遠。 在沒確定狀況前別急著付出!雖然你真的願意為愛付出一切,但也要看對方能不能承受,太過密集的付出反而會讓對方感覺到一種窒息的愛,所以最好的方法就 是保持一點距離和神秘感,來一點你追我跑的遊戲,或是每隔一段時間付出創造驚喜,才不會讓對方感覺你完全在「倒貼」他,而失去對你的好奇和興趣。(quite accurate also because once I’m in love with a guy, I’ll be 100% devoted to him!!i know it is bad but , i can’t help it!!)

☆Most touching mesage/最癡情的留言:雖然你總是在遊戲付出了真心,卻又總受到委屈。如果你不想再遊戲不論何時我會都在這裡等你。也許你說不出承諾的言語我依然會等著你永遠不放棄對你的心。 ( i think any girls will be touched if their partner were to say this to them!! i need to hint him to say this to me right? haha)

☆ Cancer-ian’s ideal partner/情侶星座: 天蠍座與巨蟹座能相知相惜,能享受成熟的愛情。雙魚座能給巨蟹座帶來無窮的樂趣,雙方相處,能夠快樂幸 福。( this one I’m unsure, so far , ex bf is an Aries, and current bf is a Cancer-ian)

☆ Cancer-ian’s most hated way of approaching/巨蟹座:巨蟹座已經很容易沒有安全感了,又很保守,所以當你玩欲擒故縱的時候,她就會有一種消極的感覺,然後心想你可能對我不感興趣吧!然後就打退堂鼓,魔羯座也類似如此。(yes yes!!)

☆Presents to buy a Cancer-ian’s heart/巨蟹座:心血來潮時可以當石頭是鑽石的人,任何物品都有可能成為他們的最愛。但是對物品沒有特別的偏向。( i love diamonds! haha but whatever he buys, as long as they are not UGLY, i’ll be happy! but i prefer him to get me small small presents from time to time to surprise me rather than giving me a nice present on certain occasions!)

☆Cancer-ian’s distribution of love/巨蟹座 :溫柔體貼,對愛人、朋友和家人都一樣地關懷倍至,感情分怖得很平均,所以不太會有花心傾向。( no this is wrong for my case!!)

☆Reasons why a Cancer-ian fail to date/巨蟹座:巨蟹座的女生喜歡享受孤獨而漸漸沒有女人味,所以巨蟹座要走女人味路線然後才有男人來滋潤她,否則的話她會愈來愈MAN愈來愈帥氣了。( i think this is not very true too, am i getting more MAN ? no!)

☆Why choose a Cancer-ian /巨蟹座:他總是帶著溫柔的笑容,細緻入微的為你打理生活。讓你覺得有家的感覺。他的溫柔,讓人如沐春風。巨蟹是個典型的居家好人,似乎一切都是以家庭為主。喜歡穩定、安定的生活,相對喜新厭舊的程度也較低。但在戀愛時,有可能因為是長距離戀愛而分手,不然一般來說,巨蟹的人都是很忠心的。 ( aiyor,the boyfriend cannot even fry an egg, but he is very tidy though, he cleans his room, fold his blankets,do his laundries, very homely person :) break up due to long distance? haha… maybe this is happening soon!)

 

 

less than a week !

Posted under Angry/Sad by Min on Saturday 23 June 2007 at 1:35 pm

oh no!! i’m feeling it already … less than a week …
:( sobz…

Cousins/Angry part-II

Posted under Angry/Sad, Family by Min on Saturday 23 June 2007 at 7:58 am

sigh.. it is all about them again!! in the morning before they went to school, i heard the girl crying wailing so loudly in her room, but i can’t be bothered to go in and find out what’s wrong!

my maid went to check on them later on, apparently, the brother scolded her!!! because she was too lazy to get her homework done!! mind u , not just Friday’s homework, she didn’t even finish Thursday’s homework!!!! bro was scolding her “为什么你这么懒惰?” ( why are u so lazy?) 5 years old girl doesn’t do her homework yet she dares to go to school? unbelievable!!!!!

i  can’t be bothered about them anymore , so i went out!

when i came home ,the boy already went to school , and the girl had came back from her kindergarden! she was all sweating and was running around in her socks and uniform! i told her not to run with socks as she’ll fall! she ignored me! Fine!!  

then she went to the kitchen, opened up the cupboard( acted as though it was her house) she slowly choose what food she wants, she finally took a whole new packet of chocolate biscuit and started munching on it!! and she finished it!!!!! seriously, it is not that she doesn’t like to eat( her parents always say she doesn’t-eat) but the truth is that because her parents never buy her food that she likes and cook nice food for her!! she loves yogurt , she loves bananas, prawns and fish.. all those healthy food but her parents just doesn’t buy for her! i tried to think of the reason again, i guess they want to save money !!!!! and probably they told her to EAT IN GU GU’S place!! whatever la….. just eat if she likes.

then her brother came home at 6.50pm ! i heard from my room that she was fighting with her brother and my maid was there too!! when i went downstairs, guess what i saw????

i saw a angry 5 years old girl, TEARING A NOTE INTO 2!! she wanted to tear into smaller pieced but she saw me hence she stopped!!!

well, tearing a piece of cash into a piece of useless paper, she must be insane!! well, it was just rm1 but god knows if she really knows the value of the money, one day she might pick up a rm100 note and tear it into pieces too right ?

i talked to her !!

me :” Why did u tear this?”

me :” who’s money is this ?”

me :” why?”

me :”kor kor make u angry that’s why u tear it is it ?”

me:” u very rich till this money is useless to u is it ?”

me :” answer my question!!”

she refused to answer my question then I went to ask her bro who locked himself in the room….  he said that is his money ! and the whole story was because his sister wanted to snatch his wallet away from him! but he refused , she was angry and she managed to grab a note , so she was mad thus she tore the money into two !!i asked if this is her first time, he said NO !!!

well, then i chose to ignore her, just told the maid to keep the tore note as an evidence to the mother to show her HOW GOOD HER DAUGHTER IS !!!!! but she managed to snatch the note off from my maid’s hand , her brother saw and he was mad!!

he whacked her hands , wanted her to let go of the money , she refused and cried again!! brother shouted at her “Cibai, u give it to me ” Wah , i was stunt!! he is so violent towards a lil’ girl!! she then ran away with the money in her brother’s hands already ! she shouted ” i tell mummy, u said Cibai”

brother went on ” Diu !”

har? i was shocked!! really ! i mean it is not like i’ve never heard of all these before but words coming out from my own relative who is 14 years old plus dr claims that he is mentally slower than normally kids up to 3 years, means his mentality age is only 11 !!!!

well, i’ve heard of his parents scolding some Mild bad words too.. so i shouldn’t be surprise to hear the kids saying it also !! but , i need to emphasize this, my house should be a bad word free and violent free home!! :)

She continued crying and shouting! brother ignored her and went to play basketball , she tagged along!! but they were still arguing over the incident jut now!!

suddenly , her mother came! once she step into my house she said loudly ” why u never shower?” sister replied to her “told u no water already ma!” she was very angry !! she thought we don’t want her kids to shower here again!! and her hair was in mess, i guess she went home after work to nap!!! she finishes her work at 5, reaches home maybe about 6, normally she’ll nap before she comes to my place to pick the kids up at about 6.45pm !!!! 

yesterday she came at 7.10-7.15 pm , i bet she overslept and her son has tuition at 8pm that’s why she was angry !!

the brother faster took out the note that the sister tore and showed the mother!!! but …. u know what did she say ???

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she didn’t ask for reason, she didn’t listen to the story , she just  said ” don’t make me angry ar.. u and sister always make me angry !”that’s all she said!!!wah , i was a bit mad, this kind of mother!!

She non stop repeating “don’t make me angry , faster go home!” i think she was shy !!! because her kids are behaving so badly !!!!!

then she shouted for her daughter but daughter refused to follow her home, why ? because she was scared that the mother will scold or slap her as she tore the money into two !!

she didn’t want to go home, till the mother took out a hanger, dragged her into the car….

Well, she didn’t want to follow also because she wanted the mother to pity her as if she already knew she was wrong and forgive her!!

but come on!! her mum is definitely WRONG!!!!! she is suppose to find out the story behind the thing before telling the brother off!! and she needs to talk to the girl!!!

i guess different parenting style that i can’t be bothered anymore, I’ll just lay back and watch !! free show ok ??? 

i told my mum what cousin did, even she agrees that my aunt needs to teach her !!! but what to do ?! she is her daughter not ours!! thank god not ours! I’ll rather die if she is my daughter!

conclusion: never spoil your child!!! also , please be a responsible parent to teach them well if u choose to bring them to this world!!  

p/s: sorry for the two violent word!  

Baby Part-II with photo

Posted under Family by Min on Friday 22 June 2007 at 8:06 pm

Hehe, my cousin-in law is so cute! i told him to snap baby’s photo and send it to me, he really did it!!! so sweet!! He sent it via mms… but.. baby’s eyes are close…..sobz

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She is sleeping so soundly!! chubby lil’ baby girl with sharp chin! runs in the family la! Waiting for a photo with her eyes widely open! then must check check if she has single or double eyelids!:)

Stay cute lil’ Zhi Xuan!!

blablabla

Posted under myself by Min on Friday 22 June 2007 at 6:20 pm

I’m tired… falling asleep but i can’t !! i need to pick that sister up at 5 pm then we will head to MidValley straight away ! hehe.. then shopping again lo!!

Do u know I’m so sick of sending her and picking her up from her school? imagine everyday ( at least twice!!) from Damansara Jaya to Sri Kdu !!! gotta pass by the traffics lights , the jam , annoying driver (BMW driver W*S 188, thank god only bump into her twice!)  

sending her in the morning is a pain because I’ll be so sleepy !! in the evening ( near to 4 pm) , it’ll be so warm out there!! argh !! then i gotta spend money buying her tea-time! but i normally buy McDonald’s!! because it is the cheapest and it is on the way !!

What do i  buy from McDonald’s that is cheap ? try guessing!!!!!!!!!!

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Tea time combo!!! 4 pieces of Nuggets and Soft Drinks for only RM3!! but smart people like me has McDonald’s card! so with purchase about rm3, i get either a free small fries or a ice cream cone!! since she loves the fries, I’ll always ask for fries! See? Fries, nuggets and drinks= rm3.15 ( including tax!)

but i do swap the food at times, sometimes i change to Banana/Apple Pie  , same price!!

I’ve just checked out the hotels in Singapore, alamak, they are so costly !!!! sigh …. i thought could save some money by staying at those cheapo hotels! but seems like those cheap ones are very scary !!

I miss the bf! out one year anniversary is around the corner ! but i wont be seeing him on the day itself!! maybe he forgotten about it already … never mind!! i will pretend to forget too!!! :) if he can’t even remember , I’ll be ultra disappointed! a man who doesn’t remember these important dates shall go away from me!!! :P  i will not see him on his birthday too! because mum wants me to come home that weekend to celebrate my birthday ! so i guess if he wants to celebrate, I’ll tell him that we will choose a day to celebrate everything together ! what do u think? good idea rite? cheap and easy !! save money on dinners, presents and everything! hheeh 

but i did mentioned to him i want a weekend escape as pressie , we shall see if he will remember!!

it is getting too close , the day that I’m leaving will be the saddest moment ever!! I’ll tear trust me!! I’m old but IBM still like a baby alright?

when i flew to Australia, i cried through out the whole 8 hours!!!!! till those air stewardess have to come and cheer me up!! talk to me and they even give me post cards, and my favourite mango juice!!:) hahah that guy stole Mango Juice from business class just for the cry baby!!

hehe i still remember once i was flying with a uni mate! he was so scared when i tear! he said this non stop” Min , don’t cry la! later ppl think i bully u !! i give u sweets, come, don’t cry !!” ahahha so sweet rite? then he offered me the sweets his gf gave him before we left! but .. of course i didn’t take lar!! Precious gift okie?!

Sigh …. i hate to leave…..

Mummy will scold, daddy will stare at me, sister will laugh at me, boyfriend will tell me to be independent if they read this post!!!!!!!!! they all want me to grow up , to be stronger, to be more independent, but after 4 years, i’m still a baby !!!

oh gosh, this baby is turning 23 yet she always cries!!!  

did i mention that boyfriend told me to LEARN TO LOVE MYSELF? don’t i love myself ? yes i really don’t love myself!!

i’m the Empress!!

Posted under bla bla bla by Min on Thursday 21 June 2007 at 11:25 pm

You are The Empress

Beauty, happiness, pleasure, success, luxury, dissipation.

The Empress is associated with Venus, the feminine planet, so it represents,
beauty, charm, pleasure, luxury, and delight. You may be good at home
decorating, art or anything to do with making things beautiful.

The Empress is a creator, be it creation of life, of romance, of art or business. While the Magician is the primal spark, the idea made real, and the High Priestess is the one who gives the idea a form, the Empress is the womb where it gestates and grows till it is ready to be born. This is why her symbol is Venus, goddess of beautiful things as well as love. Even so, the Empress is more Demeter, goddess of abundance, then sensual Venus. She is the giver of Earthly gifts, yet at the same time, she can, in anger withhold, as Demeter did when her daughter, Persephone, was kidnapped. In fury and grief, she kept the Earth barren till her child was returned to her.

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angry!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted under Angry/Sad by Min on Thursday 21 June 2007 at 3:55 pm

today after i came back from shopping, both cousins were eating at the living room, to be honest i dislike people eating in the living room especially kids because they tend to dirty the place!! moreover the sofa is a very light colour so it is easily stained!!

So , i told her , “eat properly okie ? don’t dirty the place!” but i heard her bro scolding her ” eat properly la!! u see u dirty the place!! faster la!!” i didn’t care, i went out to my room, put my things down , then i went downstairs again!!!! argh !! she was crying!!! then i saw her brother cleaning the floor with loads of tissue paper!! i know , she poured out her rice!! i was a lil’ angry already ! i just said ” see? i told u to eat properly!” then i went to the kitchen to talk to my maid to tell her something!! then i heard her crying even louder, i rushed out to the living room, i saw her climbing up to the sofa and her bro pulled her back down to the floor! actually she got some rice stuck on her clothings!! and the rice had some soya sauce with it , so her bro was worried that the brown soy sauce might stain the sofa , that’s why he didn’t allow her to sit on the sofa! she yelled and yelled! then her brother scolded her  ” why must u be like this? cannot eat properly ? look what u’ve done?” then she continued crying and wanting to sit on the sofa!!!

I went to her and ask her to look at me … she refused!! then i said ” what i told u just now?” she kept on crying ” i said eat properly, why didn’t u  listen ?” she said “kor kor beat me” then i asked ” kor kor poured the rice out or did u do it ?” she cried and cried !!! kor kor continue cleaning the floor !! poor kor kor!! then i gave her a lil’ talk! i told her that kor kor said she cannot go up to the sofa cos she is dirty and everything but in a louder tone compare to previous tones!! then when i walked away she yelled “STUPID”….

wah! i angry la!! i told her nicely first time , then second time i told her again!!! now she scolds me stupid! okie fine! i went to maid’s room and took out the hanger! i lightly beat her butt! she had no feelings! then i looked at her, she stared at me too!! i said ” say one more time!” she continued staring at me, i said again ” say one more time!! your mummy never teach u how to respect is it ? u r so rude!” her kor kor at the side was trying to ask her to say sorry but ..no use she was still starring at me !! but refused to say STUPID the second time! 

i told her ” don’t come to my house next time, u r so rude! ask your mummy to hire a maid or send u to day care centre! i don’t want rude kids to be in my house!”

then 15 minutes later , she stopped crying! i turned on the TV, it was showing some funny cooking show ( i think it is called Mei Lui Chu Fong) it is her favorite show! i was still angry ma! then i told her ” don’t watch my TV!” she closed her eyes but i know she was peeping!! haha…. 

later on , it was about time that her transporter will come and bring her to school! i told her to wear her socks! actually her bro wore for her already ! but she took it out again! so , i told her to wear! but she refused!! then i asked again , she refused! then finally i gave up!!! i off the tv and went to kitchen to chit chat with my maid and told her what the lil’ one did! hahaha ….

suddenly, i heard some noise outside , she was there playing with my sister’s calculator and she DROPPED it!!so i asked her” why u so busybody to take people’s things? is that yours ? later che che ( my sister) will scold u !” she looked at me and stuck her tongue out!! wah ..angry arnot ???

then i don’t care la.. i told her to wear her socks again but she refused!!! yet she cried again!! i was so angry !!! i wanted her to say sorry for dropping my sister’s calculator and for taking without permission, i told her ” say sorry” but she refused!! cry and cry ! then i told her ” if u don’t say then i’m going to lock u out of the house!” she still cry and cry !!

finally …..i cannot take it anymore, i carried her out , put her there and pretend to lock the door ( haiyo, still my house compound la, just the garage area!)  before i lock, i asked her if she wants to say sorry ..she nodded.. but at the same time, her brother came out from the room , then she thought her brother would help her, she cried even louder!!!!! wanting her brother to rescue her but … no way her brother will rescue her this time! this girl needs to learn a lesson!! her brother wanted to carry her in , i said “no” then i asked again “do u want to say sorry ? who is stupid ?” she kept crying!! then i locked the door!! 

me , maid and her bro were inside the house! of course her cry went from loud to LOUDER!! finally i opened the door, let her in to wear her socks and shoes!!! but …. that fella was still behaving badly!! till her brother cannot stand it !! he went to get a hanger too and whacked her leg twice!! hard okie !!!!! and dragged her from living room to the door area to make her wear her shoes!! then i said ” beat no use la, lock her out again if she continues like this ” hahah… she replied” go out la! i go out and wait for Uncle Vellu ( transporter) ” then i really locked her out again because she asked for it!! we gave her school bag and everything! this time round she is really locked at the car porch , she was squatting there! stopped crying already ! 

my naughty maid scared her!! saying that there’s ghost behind her! haha and me and her bro also acted as if there’s ghost behind her! then we ran away ! hahah of course she cried again!! 

later on , we call my dog over to the car porch area… the dog sat next to her! wanted to lick her face! hahaha …. she is not afraid of the dog actually! but her brother is!! hahah.. her brother told her to stand up and he opened the door to bring her in but she yelled again “i want to stay outside!” okie lor…. she went out again!!

until her transporter came , she started crying again!!” i don’t want to go to school!” i told her too ” later ask Uncle vellu to fetch u home! your house! not my house!” she shouted “Uncle Vellu don’t know the way ” i replied “he knows!” her brother also told her to say sorry to me, maid as well as my sister later when she gets home! but she said ” NO!”

off she went to school! my house is back to peaceful again!!!

i talked to her brother later on, brother said ” spoilt by my parents” but actually that is very true!!! my uncle and aunt never teach her!!! and spoil her!! plus like mother like daughter!! mother annoying , daughter also same la!! they always think my family is rich then make use of us! but i’m rich or not doesn’t bother her alright?! she is the one who said ” shower in Gu Gu ( my mum) ’s house la! shower at home need to pay ! in Gu Gu’s house Gu GU pay!” crazy !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

these few days because the water pressure is too low,there isn’t enough water for out own family to use, maid cannot wash clothings , so maid told my aunt ” can u shower them before they come? no water!” then she was like ” why no water? u mean u want my kids to shower before they come?” then okie … two days back my other relative came to stay over , of course we need to save some water for the guest to use right ? then my aunt saw full tub of water! then she must be thinking that we purposely don’t want her kids to shower in our place! then the following day her husband also said to my maid ” who say no water! yesterday got full tub of water!!” come on la, please grow up la my dear uncle and aunty!! we are not like u guys! u guys ask your kids to shower in my place to save your water bill! but our house really don’t have water!! we asked people to fix but still it is the same!! haihs… i cannot even scrub my body and shower twice aday !! yet they want both the kids to shower twice in my place to share those bit bit of water we have on hand !! tell me, do u think they are crazy ?? 

her brother said as well “once my sister was angry she said papa and mama stupid!” then her mother gave her a slap!! but later on they went to KFC , cos mummy felt sorry!! see? this is how she is teaching her!!! wrong !!!!!whatever it is , i just need to see her for 2 more weeks !! and for around half a year more! once we move, they will need to get their own maid , take care their own kids!! stop making use of me and my family!!!!! also my maid!!!

like what she always say ” this house( my house) got a lot of problem!” so , since my house got problem, then don’t come!!! i don’t have to welcome this kind of people!!!  

sorry for locking her out of the house but she is really unbearable!! she needs to learn a lesson!! she is too rude!!!! her parents’ fault!! not hers!!!  at least i didn’t slap her like how her mum did to her!!!! and i will not buy her KFC unless she behaves well later and say SORRY !! 

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