THe boyfriend’s change of job
is killing me… he has yet to change job, he recently got promoted to Asst.Manager with a 15 % pay rise! but …
he wants to leave.. simply because he finds his job boring, he has lost the momentum to work and he wants to leave to move into his ideal field-SALES!
he also got an offer by a small sales company… which offered to pay him a basic salary of what he was getting before the promotion and commission will be given if he achieves his target…
story telling time- his dad left a big big firm when he was in his 30s to venture into his dream - remisier too.. and then the family went into crisis! the dad failed to bring home money so the whole family survived on the mother’s income… imagine 1 salary to raise 3 kids + a philipino maid!! the family is happy so long as the father doesn’t bring any trouble home - that’s it! but .. i don’t want this to happen to my family!!! i can’t imagine my kid not being able to eat /buy what they want!! and i can’t send my kids overseas to study? no yearly overseas holiday trip?
ok… so, bf is hoping that i’ll support him …
i personally think he should stay… but since he is not happy … then whatelse can i say? leave if he wants…
just pray hard that my future family won’t end up like his family!! or i’ll probably commite suicide and die … can’t take those pain!! 
** wanted to post this in our private blog so that he’ll know how i feel abt it , but decided not to because i dont want him to feel the pressure… however, then it will mean i’ll have to be constantly worrying about him whether he could bring home the money everymonth!!
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